What parents should know about college recruiting

The college recruiting process can be as exciting as it is overwhelming, not only for athletes but also for their parents. Navigating the maze of college visits, recruitment timelines, academic standards, and communication with coaches requires parents to be informed and proactive.

Understanding the basics and knowing how to support your child can make all the difference in securing the best opportunities. Here’s everything you, as a parent, need to know to help guide your athlete through the recruiting process.

Start Early and Stay Proactive

One of the biggest misconceptions about college recruiting is that the process doesn’t start until an athlete’s junior or senior year of high school. In reality, recruiting can start as early as middle school, depending on the sport and division.

By the time most athletes are in their junior year, many college coaches have already formed strong opinions about potential recruits.

What You Can Do:

  • Encourage Skill Development: Early involvement in clubs, camps, and clinics helps develop your child’s skills and puts them on the radar of college scouts.
  • Research Early: Familiarize yourself with the recruiting timelines for your child’s sport and division level (NCAA Division I, II, III, NAIA, etc.).
  • Create a Plan: Help your child set realistic goals and develop a strategy for reaching out to college coaches and showcasing their abilities.

Understand the Different Recruiting Stages

Recruiting isn’t a one-step process; it involves multiple stages, each with its own set of rules and expectations. Understanding these stages will help you support your child at the right times.

Key Stages of Recruiting:

  • Initial Interest (Freshman/Sophomore Year): Coaches may start showing interest, often informally, by following athletes on social media or attending showcases.
  • Communication (Sophomore/Junior Year): Direct communication may begin, typically through emails, phone calls, or unofficial visits.
  • Official Visits and Offers (Junior/Senior Year): Athletes may be invited for official visits, where they can meet the team and experience campus life. This is often when scholarship offers are made.

Pro Tip: Educate yourself on the NCAA recruiting calendar, which outlines when and how coaches can contact your athlete. This will help you guide your child and set realistic expectations.

Academics Are Just as Important as Athletics

One common pitfall for parents is focusing solely on athletic performance. However, academic performance can be just as important in the recruiting process.

College coaches want student-athletes who can handle both the academic and athletic demands of college life.

Key Academic Considerations:

  • GPA Requirements: Each division has specific GPA requirements, with Division I generally requiring a minimum of 2.3 for eligibility.
  • SAT/ACT Scores: Standardized tests may still play a role, so ensure your child is adequately prepared.
  • NCAA Eligibility Center: Ensure your athlete is registered with the NCAA Eligibility Center, which certifies that they meet the academic standards required to compete at the collegiate level.

Pro Tip: Staying on top of academics not only broadens the range of schools interested in recruiting your child but may also open up academic scholarships and financial aid opportunities.

Highlight Reels Are Essential

A well-crafted highlight reel can make or break your athlete’s chance of getting noticed. Coaches use highlight reels as a first step to evaluate potential recruits before deciding whether to pursue them further.

What to Include in a Highlight Reel:

  • Introduction: Briefly include your child’s name, position, school, and basic stats.
  • Best Plays First: Start with the most impressive moments to grab the coach’s attention.
  • Quality Over Quantity: The video should be 3-5 minutes long and showcase a variety of skills relevant to their position.
  • Full-Game Footage: Be ready to provide full-game footage upon request, as coaches often want to see how an athlete performs throughout a match.

Pro Tip: Ensure the video is clear, well-edited, and has no distracting effects or music.

Communication is Key

Encourage your athlete to take ownership of their recruiting journey by initiating communication with college coaches. While you can guide them, college coaches prefer hearing directly from the athlete.

How Parents Can Support:

  • Help Craft Emails: Assist your child in creating professional and concise emails to coaches, including personal introductions, academic and athletic achievements, and links to highlight reels.
  • Follow Up: Teach your athlete to follow up if they don’t receive a response. Persistence shows interest and dedication.

Pro Tip: Maintain a balance—being involved is important, but coaches want to know that the athlete is the one passionate about their sport and future.

Know the Different Levels of Competition

Understanding the differences between NCAA Divisions I, II, and III, as well as NAIA and junior colleges, can help you and your athlete choose the best path.

Division Comparisons:

  • Division I: The most competitive level with the most athletic scholarships. High commitment to both athletics and academics.
  • Division II: Offers athletic scholarships but focuses on a balance between athletics, academics, and extracurriculars.
  • Division III: No athletic scholarships but strong emphasis on academics. Coaches may still help athletes with admissions and merit-based scholarships.
  • NAIA and Junior Colleges: Often overlooked but can be great options for athletes who want to continue playing while developing academically or physically.

Pro Tip: Consider attending games at different levels to see where your child might best fit.

Understand Scholarship Offers

Athletic scholarships can be full or partial, depending on the sport and school. Parents need to understand how these offers work and what they cover.

Types of Scholarships:

  • Full Scholarships: Covers tuition, room and board, books, and fees. Typically offered in sports like football and basketball at Division I schools.
  • Partial Scholarships: Covers part of the tuition or other expenses. These are more common across many sports and divisions.

Pro Tip: Have a clear understanding of the offer details, including renewal conditions and what happens if your child is injured or their performance declines.

The Importance of Campus Visits

Official and unofficial campus visits give you and your athlete a feel for the school’s environment, facilities, and team dynamics. It’s essential to plan visits wisely and make the most out of them.

During Campus Visits:

  • Meet with the Coach: Ask questions about playing time, coaching philosophy, and how the team balances academics and athletics.
  • Talk to Current Players: Gain insights into the team culture and daily life as a student-athlete.
  • Tour Academic Facilities: Ensure the school has strong academic programs that align with your child’s interests.

Pro Tip: Prepare a list of questions ahead of time and take notes during the visit. This will make comparing schools easier when decision time comes.

Navigating the college recruiting process can be challenging, but being an informed and supportive parent can make all the difference.

By starting early, staying organized, and guiding your child through each step, you’ll help set them up for long-term success both on and off the field.

Remember, the goal is not just to secure an athletic scholarship but to find a school where your athlete will thrive academically, athletically, and personally.

 

If you are a high school athlete looking to get recruited, check out this article HERE